Being a Good Neighbor - How to Avoid Next Door Problems

Nothing can ruin home ownership more thaneveryone else’s.
having a conflict with one of your neighbors. If4.Respect your neighbors’ privacy
you’ve ever been unlucky enough to end upEven though you live next door what happens in
in a situation like this, you know that ityour neighbors’ yard and in their home is their
doesn’t make life easy. Your home should bebusiness. If you can tell they are having a
your castle but if you’re not able to relax youbarbecue, don’t invite yourself over.
won’t be able to enjoy it. You can start offDon’t ask overly personal questions when it is
on the right foot by using the following tips.obvious that you are just casual acquaintances. By
1.Be nice but keep your distancerespecting their privacy, you can be sure that
No one wants to be harassed by a nosy neighborthey’ll respect yours as well.
the moment they come home. A friendly hello5.Be sure to thank them if they do a favor for
and wave across the lawn shows that you careyou.
without being too intruding into their personalIf you notice that your neighbor removed a weed
space. As much as you might like to be bestfrom your flower bed or if they brought over
friends with whoever is living next door, yourmis-delivered mail, be sure to thank them. These
neighbor may not want the same thing. Use theirsmall positive interactions can lead to more
response to judge whether or not to take thingsfriendly communication later on. If they do
further.something big for you, like check your mail or
2.Be respectful of their property especially when itwater your plants while you are away, thank
comes to petsthem with a gift certificate to a local coffee shop
Not everyone is a dog or cat person. If you haveor something similar.
pets, it’s very important that you keep your6.Look for opportunities to be helpful  
animals off of their lawn. If your animal happensIf your neighbor has done something nice for you,
to make a mess on your neighbor’s lawn, belook for opportunity to return the favor. Bring in
sure to clean it up quickly and try to do better intheir paper from the sidewalk or offer to feed
keeping your pet on your side.their dog if they need someone to. As long as
3.Keep your lawn niceyou can be helpful without overstepping the lines
Having the shabbiest lawn on the block is aof privacy, you should take steps to do so.
surefire way to make your neighbors resent you.Of course, your individual situation with your
Poorly kept front lawns can reduce resell value ofneighbor may differ, but as long as you follow the
everyone’s home in the vicinity and it willspirit of these suggestions you’ll be able to
make you stand out like a sore thumb. Takemaintain a good relationship with your neighbors.
steps to keep the front of your home in line with