| Boyfriend commitment issues aren't a new thing. | | | | annoying. |
| Women have been dealing with this problem since | | | | The very best thing a woman can do if she |
| the beginning of time. You're with a great guy, | | | | wants her boyfriend to get more serious is stop |
| you two click, you can see a long term future | | | | talking about the future and commitment |
| with him and he won't move beyond the dating | | | | completely. If you've been asking your boyfriend |
| stage with you. It's frustrating and heart | | | | when you two will be getting married, stop asking. |
| wrenching to be in this position. If your boyfriend | | | | If you have fallen into the habit of buying bridal |
| won't get serious with you, there are a few | | | | magazines and leaving them in places he'll see with |
| things you can do to silently move him in that | | | | the hopes it will make him feel a longing to get |
| direction. | | | | married, stop that right now. If you don't talk |
| One very common mistake that women make | | | | about the future anymore, he'll notice. It actually |
| when they have boyfriend commitment issues is | | | | won't take him long to notice. |
| they give him an ultimatum. They tell their | | | | Taking it a step further can really help with |
| boyfriend that unless he gets serious, the | | | | boyfriend commitment issues. When you do talk |
| relationship is over. This is akin to rolling a dice to | | | | about the future in any context with your |
| determine your future. Most men will balk at being | | | | boyfriend, only mention yourself. Use the words |
| pushed into a corner like this and will push back by | | | | "I" and "me" instead of "us" and "we." For |
| leaving. Some men will never come back. So | | | | instance, mention in passing that you are planning |
| unless you are willing to risk any chance of a | | | | on taking a vacation. You can even talk about the |
| future with the man you love, don't do this. | | | | idea of buying a house. Not of the two of you |
| It's also not a good idea to talk endlessly about | | | | buying a house but of you buying a house. This |
| your future if there are boyfriend commitment | | | | needs to be subtle to work. Don't go overboard. |
| issues. Some women believe that if they talk | | | | Just show him that you are thinking about the |
| around the subject and hint at it long enough, their | | | | future only in terms of yourself, not as part of a |
| boyfriend will realize what they want. This | | | | couple. This will force him to start thinking about a |
| approach is incredibly transparent and if you do it | | | | future without you. |
| with your boyfriend he'll find it and you terribly | | | | |