| The good news is once you identify what it | | | | - He fears he will have to be accountable for his |
| is that a commitment phobic man fears, you can | | | | time, what he does, how he spends his money |
| stop certain behavior that you may be exhibiting | | | | and pretty much everything he does. Your man |
| that validate his fears and move him further from | | | | has probably had a few psycho girlfriends before |
| you and the relationship you want. Men have | | | | you. Girls that ask questions like Why didn't you |
| many fears when it comes to being in a | | | | call? Where were you? Are there going to be |
| relationship with a woman. Understand these | | | | women at the party? Trust him unless you |
| fears and your commitment phobic man. Learn | | | | have reasons not to. Men worry that you may |
| how to show reassuring behavior to draw him | | | | turn into that physco girlfriend of the past |
| closer than ever to you. | | | | - He fears the exiting relationship with you will |
| | | | | grow old and stale. Its only natural when you |
| - He scared he will have to give up his | | | | meet a great guy to want to get to that |
| independence and spend every free minute with | | | | comfort stage. You want to move him to |
| you. A man needs his space and if you give it | | | | commitment and sometimes unknowingly push |
| to him freely while you go out and live your own | | | | him into it. Relax, take your time. Don't get too |
| life, he will see that he does not have to beg or | | | | comfortable too fast, keep his interest. |
| feel guilt for wanting a night off. He will | | | | - He fears you may be visioning taking that walk |
| appreciate you so much more, you will be a cool | | | | down the isle and he will have no say so at all. If |
| woman and your value in his eyes will increase. | | | | you start discussing how great it is that you have |
| - He fears you will try to change him. Men don't | | | | found him and how wonderful your lives are going |
| want to chang. If you have some problems with | | | | to be together, get ready to see how fast he |
| him and they are not deal breakers, don't nag him | | | | can run. Men want the commitment to be their |
| or cut him down in order to change him. Men | | | | idea, not yours. |
| fear a nagging, clinging woman | | | | If understand what a man really fears about |
| - He fears you will go from the fun and exiting | | | | commitment, you can begin to show reassuring |
| woman he first met to clingy and needy. A man | | | | behavior that you will not become the physco |
| does want to be your hero, but he does not | | | | girlfriend that he fears. If you show him that |
| want to be responsible for your happiness. | | | | you are not going to take away all of his freedom |
| Show him you are a happy woman and that he | | | | and you accept him as an individual, he will |
| just brings more happiness in your life. Don't | | | | become compelled to move towards you and into |
| make him feel responsible for your happiness or | | | | a commitment. Cure the commitment phobic. |
| make him feel you need him to be complete | | | | |