| How do I get a guy to commit to me is one of | | | | Eventually it becomes a battle of wills and no one |
| those questions women ask when they realize | | | | wins. When your relationship is at stake, you need |
| their long term boyfriend isn’t ready to | | | | to find a better, less volatile approach. You may |
| become their husband. Some men just aren’t | | | | be surprised to learn that appearing to lose |
| as eager to walk down the aisle towards | | | | interest in a commitment is actually one of the |
| marriage as other men are. In fact, some men | | | | best ways to get one. If you suddenly stop |
| just don’t even want to be considered your | | | | talking about the relationship and where it’s |
| boyfriend. They’d much rather just go on | | | | headed, he’s going to sit up and take notice. |
| casually dating for all eternity. If any of these | | | | He’ll wonder why you have a change of heart |
| scenarios sound like your current relationship, you | | | | and he’ll attribute it to you changing your |
| need help. If you’re with a man who | | | | mind. That’s just what you want. If your guy |
| doesn’t want to move the relationship to the | | | | believes you may not be as into him as he once |
| next level, you can change that. Instead of doing | | | | thought, he’ll start to get busy trying to win |
| what most people suggest which is breaking | | | | you again. |
| things off, you need to take control of the | | | | That’s why it’s so effective if you also |
| situation and make him crave a commitment with | | | | pull back a bit after you stop talking about a |
| you. | | | | commitment. Busy yourself with things so |
| Whenever a woman asks the question of how do | | | | you’re not always available for your man. |
| I get a guy to commit, she’s already feeling | | | | Don’t jump at every chance to be with him |
| frustrated with him. Likely this is because | | | | and make plans that don’t include him. This |
| she’s pushed him for something more serious | | | | may feel like you’re playing a game with him, |
| and he’s flatly refused. Most of us have been | | | | but you’re actually just showing him that you |
| guilty of this in a relationship. We fall in love with a | | | | have other options. He’ll feel you slipping |
| man and we want more than he’s willing to | | | | away from him and he’ll seriously reconsider |
| give so we think if we just keep pushing him, | | | | whether holding out on a commitment is worth |
| he’ll eventually give in. Most men won’t. | | | | the risk of losing you forever. |
| They’ll just push back against what you want. | | | | |