| If you want to make your man commit the last | | | | mention marriage to him. |
| thing you should do is give him an ultimatum. Many | | | | If you've already made this crucial error there is a |
| women do this with the belief that their boyfriend | | | | very easy way to correct it that will actually |
| will come to his senses and go buy them an | | | | silently encourage him to want to commit to you. |
| engagement ring out of fear of losing the | | | | If you are notorious for hinting to him that you |
| relationship. This is rarely how it goes. What is | | | | want something more substantial in terms of a |
| more likely to happen is that he'll walk out, never | | | | commitment and then you pull back, he'll be left a |
| to be seen again. | | | | little dazed and confused. The easiest way to |
| One reason that a man may not want to get | | | | accomplish this is to suddenly stop talking about |
| serious in a long term way with his girlfriend is | | | | the future. Take the word "marriage" out of your |
| because he feels pressured into it. As women, | | | | vocabulary completely. You can take it a step |
| when we believe we've found our soul mate we | | | | further by making your own plans for vacations |
| want to hold onto him. In order to do that we | | | | and outings. Don't be too obvious about it. Just pull |
| believe we need to make it clear to him that | | | | back a little bit and he'll notice. Once he does he'll |
| we're thinking about marriage and kids. When a | | | | start to wonder why you're behaving the way |
| woman does this, before a man is ready for it, it | | | | you are and it may even make him worry that |
| sends him into defensive mode. He feels as | | | | you're starting to question the relationship and him. |
| though he's losing his options and choices and that | | | | If you do this, he'll begin to wonder whether now |
| his future is being laid out for him. If you want to | | | | may actually be the time he does need to |
| make your man commit the best possible thing | | | | commit before he loses you for good. |
| you can do is not behave this way. Never | | | | |