| To survive marriage after affair, it is going to | | | | To rebuild your marriage after affair, you must |
| take a lot of effort for both the husband and | | | | accept full responsibility for your actions. |
| wife to deal with all the issues on the table. There | | | | Communication is the key factor in whether or |
| will be many of them. However, if there is still a | | | | not you will move past this. If you have cheated |
| willingness within both of you to get past this, | | | | on your spouse, they have every right to be |
| then there is still hope that you can once again | | | | angry, hurt, ashamed of you, and basically |
| achieve happiness in your marriage. | | | | devastated in all regards. |
| If you are the one who has been cheated on, | | | | If you are the one who cheated, do not make |
| then you are going through more pain and | | | | the mistake of blaming your spouse for your |
| devastation than anyone can realize, unless they | | | | actions. Regardless of what was going on prior to |
| have been there. Similar to dealing with death, you | | | | your infidelity, you made a commitment to this |
| are going through so many emotions you | | | | person to love them and be faithful to them |
| probably cannot even describe them all. A critical | | | | through good times and bad. You need to realize |
| trust has been broken, and even if you decide to | | | | that your spouse is going to be skeptical of |
| try to move past this, you already must know it | | | | anything you say for a very long time. However, |
| is going to take some time. | | | | if there is a willingness by each of you to try to |
| It is important for the one who did the cheating | | | | move past this, then there may be hope for your |
| to be completely honest from this point forward. | | | | marriage after affair. |