| Dealing with men who won't commit isn't easy for | | | | talk about your change of attitude. Let him notice |
| any of us. If you're wild about a certain guy and | | | | for himself. It won't take long for him to realize |
| he claims to feel the same way about you, it's | | | | that suddenly you're a lot less interested in getting |
| natural that you'd expect a deeper commitment | | | | serious with him. That will eat at him and punch a |
| at some level, right? Unfortunately not all men | | | | small hole in his ego. |
| see this issue through the same eyes as women | | | | Men want what they can't have. That's a simple |
| do. Instead of giving up on your hopes for a | | | | fact of life. Most men who won't commit haven't |
| more serious commitment, why not take matters | | | | crossed paths with a woman who wasn't |
| into your own hands? There's plenty you can do, | | | | interested in marriage with them. You have to |
| starting right now, to make him crave to commit | | | | start acting a bit detached and disinterested in |
| to you. | | | | him. Stop being available to hang out with him |
| The first thing women must do with men who | | | | every time he calls. Be a bit more reserved and |
| won't commit is to stop talking about a | | | | don't share your feelings with him. Your goal is to |
| commitment. The more you talk about it to him, | | | | create some doubt in his mind about what you |
| the more he's going to fight you on it. If a man | | | | are feeling for him. You need him to question your |
| tells you that he doesn't want anything serious | | | | commitment to him. If you can do that you'll |
| and you try and verbally persuade him, he's going | | | | reignite his interest. Once that happens he'll feel a |
| to resist and he'll keep resisting for as long as you | | | | pull to make things more official because he'll |
| bring it up. Drop all talk of anything more serious | | | | realize there's a risk of losing you. |
| than a casual dating relationship with him. Don't | | | | |