| If your boyfriend fears commitment and you're | | | | You have to stop talking about anything more |
| ready to take things to the next level, you're | | | | serious than what you two share right now. |
| stuck in an agonizing situation. Many women find | | | | You should also be focusing more on yourself |
| themselves struggling with this and eventually | | | | than him if your boyfriend fears commitment. It's |
| they reach a crossroads. Should they leave the | | | | easy to invest too much of yourself in a |
| man they love in the hope they'll find someone | | | | relationship. Once we do this we start resenting |
| willing to embrace a more serious relationship or | | | | our partner if he's not giving up everything we |
| are they better off staying with the man they | | | | believe we deserve. You need to find fulfillment |
| adore in a long term dating relationship? There's | | | | within yourself so start chasing your own dreams. |
| actually a third choice. If there was a way for | | | | It's okay to be a bit selfish. If there's a career |
| you to get your boyfriend to crave a | | | | change you've been contemplating, now is the |
| commitment with you, wouldn't that be what you | | | | perfect time to pursue that. Perhaps you've |
| wanted? It's possible to make this happen and it's | | | | always wanted to jet away to some tropical |
| not nearly as difficult as you may think. | | | | location. Plan that getaway with a friend. The goal |
| The first step you absolutely must take if your | | | | is to show him that you have a very happy and |
| boyfriend fears commitment is to stop telling him | | | | fulfilling life that doesn't include him. If he starts to |
| that you want one. What often happens when | | | | feel not as important to you, he's going to begin |
| the man in the relationship is fearful of taking the | | | | to worry about losing you. You want that to |
| next step is that it becomes even less appealing if | | | | happen. |
| the woman he is with constantly pushes for it. | | | | |