| Have you given up on trying to make your man | | | | neither of you is seeing anybody else, then it's |
| commit? Do you believe that men are impossible | | | | commitment time. For you, that comes easily. For |
| and will never commit? Are you at your wit's | | | | him, it doesn't. He will resist the change, especially |
| end? If so, don't despair. Read on: there are | | | | if he is reasonably happy with the life he already |
| actually some surefire ways to make your man | | | | has. He may be afraid to rock the boat for fear |
| commit. | | | | of losing his friends or his freedom. Your job is to |
| Before you get too excited, look at those key | | | | make him realize that a commitment to you is |
| words again: "make your man commit." It doesn't | | | | not a loss, but a gain. |
| say "any man." This dating advice is for girl's who | | | | You may have to make him realize what he'll be |
| already have a man they are seeing regularly. The | | | | losing if he loses you before he'll be willing to give |
| strategy you use will depend on how long you've | | | | up his imagined freedom. Would having the |
| been seeing each other and how far he's | | | | freedom to date other girls be better than having |
| progressed towards making a commitment to | | | | you at his side? Make him know that the answer |
| you. | | | | to that question is "No!" but that he is going to |
| If you've only been going out for a little while and | | | | have to decide. |
| the guy is either still dating other girls or spending | | | | If all else fails, you may need to show him that |
| a lot of time with his buddies, you just need to | | | | you can live without him. Don't jump every time |
| make every moment together count. Try to | | | | he asks you out. Don't call him on the phone. |
| steer your dates away from parties and clubs | | | | Make him call you. If he feels you're drifting away |
| and towards more intimate surrounds. A day out | | | | from him, it may be enough to make him realize |
| together is a great way to get to know each | | | | that he is in love with you. |
| other. Find something to do together that he will | | | | Remember, these techniques will only work on a |
| enjoy as much as you do. The trick is to make | | | | man you already feel a bond with. No matter |
| your activities together unique and better than | | | | what the dating advice gurus tell you, you can't |
| the things he does every day. That will make you | | | | make just any man commit to you. However, if |
| stand out as special in his mind. | | | | you follow this advice, you can make your man |
| If you have been dating for a long time and | | | | commit to you. |